The Art of War with Social Media in 5 Steps

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Defeat your worst rivals by killing them with kindness

  1. Your greatest competitor should receive nothing but generosity and praise for their developments
  2. This must be genuine acknowledgement of their strengths and expertise
    • if you’re competing with slouches consider increasing your skills
    • subtle jabs allowed, for example: noting their awareness of cutting edge technologies, when they steal your best concepts and profess them as their own
  3. Any community will exert social pressure on your enemy/competitor when witnessing your continued kindness. They won’t remain avid followers of your opponent for long if your competitor continues to bash you without provocation. At least the rational followers won’t
  4. In this way you can convert opposition into support
  5. Mutual understanding can then begin, or leave it at polite differences

On the other hand, if you’re competing with Boone Oakley, you may be in trouble.

A perfect stategic followup to this concept, How David Beats Goliath, discusses the brilliant simplicity of several underdog victories. The common features between winning underdogs, immense effort, endurance, a willingness to break social norms.

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I’m Mark Essel, a dataminer & systems engineer that’s added cofounder, web developer and author to my bag of tricks. My quest is to rediscover my life’s passions, and leverage that drive into profitable business ventures.
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4 Responses to The Art of War with Social Media in 5 Steps

  1. The best thing you should do about social media is to be remarkable. You have to come up with an idea of what people are more likely to see. Most of these experts and webmasters always emphasize on targeting social media for traffic building.

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  2. Mark Essel says:

    Kevin I would argue there's no how to guide to being remarkable (http://www.victusspiritus.com/2009/04/22/theres... ).

    I do have to concede there are common traits to remarkable people. And there's a choice each of us makes whether or not to try and be remarkable. We decide on how far we are willing to go with any endeavor.

  3. The best thing you should do about social media is to be remarkable. You have to come up with an idea of what people are more likely to see. Most of these experts and webmasters always emphasize on targeting social media for traffic building.

    Media Samurai

  4. Mark Essel says:

    Kevin I would argue there's no how to guide to being remarkable (http://www.victusspiritus.com/2009/04/22/theres... ).

    I do have to concede there are common traits to remarkable people. And there's a choice each of us makes whether or not to try and be remarkable. We decide on how far we are willing to go with any endeavor.

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